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6/10/2007

镜子的点名

被点名了....静静同学点的....
一直没写博 我真是太懒了 不过既然被点到了 还是可以玩一下的 这个游戏挺有意思的 可以让我重新认识一下自己 现在的生活让我有些迷失了 嗯 我怎么说话都不加标点了 写短信写惯了 厚厚厚
P.S. 老公我好爱你啊!!!
 
规则:
     一、被点到名字的要在自己的博客(or Q-zone)回答所有有趣的问题并自己出一道问题,并且将这些题目传到其他七个人,  还要到这七个人的博客上留言通知对方“你被点名了”。
     二、这七个人要在博客(or Q-zone)上注明是在哪接到的题目,并且再将题目传给其他七个人,让游戏继续下去,不得回传,被点名的人将得到大家的祝福,并且所有美丽的愿望都会在不久以后得以实现。
以下就是我回答的问题了:呵呵
1.2006你最开心的事是什么
这问题跨越了年代…… 我要回忆一下…… 想到了…… 找到了可以依靠的男人。
2.2006年最难过的事是什么
姥姥不在了,这是我永远无法忘怀的痛。那个时候的记忆还在尘封,我不愿再去开启。
3.2006冬天最大的心愿是什么?
和老公结婚。
4.最大的愿望?
考上北外高翻。
5.如果现在可以让你随心所欲去旅行,你想去哪
英国。还有马尔代夫。
6.你最满意自己身体哪个部位?与别人初次见面你会先注意他(她)哪个部位?
我的舌头(不要觉得怪异啊,算命说我将来要靠它的);对方的身高(我眼睛不好,看人会先注意“海拔”)
7.失眠过吗?你用什么办法对抗失眠?
失眠过;看政治。
8.会不会做饭?你希望你的伴侣(OR未来的伴侣)会做饭吗
不会。老公比我强,不过也没还到哪儿去。(偶没资格说他哈)他还是应该会做,同时我也会学的。
9.你最想做哪个动画片角色?为什么?
好多了。我想想…… 《葫芦娃》里的蛇精吧,她的发型很别致。
10.在你心中我是怎么样一个人?
我最好的朋友。时而稳重时而活泼的女孩儿。可以相信并依赖的人。
11.如果可以重来 你最想改变的是什么?
我会参加高考。不用解释了吧。
12.觉得自己是个自恋的人么?
还行吧。不过我很喜欢夸自己。呵呵 一个意思哈。
13.爱人爱到怎样的程度才算是超过爱自己呢? 
愿意为他付出自己的生命。
14.你理想的伴侣应该具备什么样的品质? 
成熟稳重,有责任感,上进心等等 (这是镜子的答案,我完全赞同)
15.是否有过心灵的自我放逐,是怎么做的? 
我不懂哦……
16.你心中对"落落大方"的定义是什么?(除去金钱,物质方面) 
勇敢,不怯场,有气质
17.当你不开心的时候,怎么调节自己变开心? 
睡觉,或者吃东西
18.你认为“美好”是建立在什么基础上的? 
钱不是万能的,没有钱是万万不能的!
19.过去的日子里,什么时候是你最开心的时候? 
很多开心的时刻,讲不完的……
20:平时跟朋友去的最多次的娱乐场所有哪些??
东方之珠
21: 目前为止你一共交了几个男(女)朋友? ( 包含现在交往的 ) (一定要诚实诚实!!!) 
2个 
22:你最喜欢看的一部电影及其男女主演
教父 男女主演可以上网自己查一下 哈哈
23:你们家住几楼?
6楼 不过有电梯 不方便我减肥 厚厚
 
我的问题:想保持身材,但晚上突然肚子饿了,怎么办呢?
 
 好了.开始点名:杨柏楠、曹奕、张丽鑫、赵作睿、罗璇、刘寅砚、任翘、于福洋、陈娇龙
2/21/2007

Hezbollah

Hezbollah 真主党(黎巴嫩)
(From Yahoo News)
Treasury targets Hezbollah construction arm
WASHINGTON (Reuters) - The U.S. Treasury Department on Tuesday designated a Lebanon-based construction company operated by Hezbollah as a terrorist organization, accusing it of bolstering the militant group's public standing by rebuilding war-torn areas.
 
"Hezbollah operates Jihad al-Bina for its own construction needs as well as to attract popular support through the provision of civilian construction services," Stuart Levey, Treasury's under secretary for terrorism and financial intelligence, said in a statement. "We will take action against all facets of this deadly terror group."

Jihad al-Bina, whose name translates as "construction for the sake of the holy struggle," has been involved in debris clearance and reconstruction efforts in southern Lebanon following Hezbollah's month-long conflict with Israel in the summer of 2006.

Other Words:

iron lung 人工呼吸器

pep talk 鼓舞士气的讲话

东风破

(摘自李哲老师博客)
 
东风破
    Dong Feng po ——Breezes into Pieces
 
 
    一盏离愁孤单伫立在窗口   我在门後假装你人还没走
    All alone in wait by the window,
    Stands a sad lamp in parting sorrow.
    To linger behind an unbelieving gate,
    Isn't my longing gaze all but too late?
 
    旧地如重游月圆更寂寞   夜半清醒的烛火不忍苛责我
    Lonelier is the moon full and cold,
    Bitter still is when an old love retold.
    A midnight candle struggles to keep awake,
    Isn't a sleepless grief all but my mistake?
 
    一壶漂泊浪迹天涯难入喉   你走之後酒暖回忆思念瘦
    To the end of the world I drift,
    With a pot of wine too heavy to lift.
    The wine revives a memory thin and thick.
    Doesn't it warm up all but a heart so love-sick?
 
    水向东流时间怎麼偷   花开就一次成熟我却错过
    How can I bear to steal the hour
    As water flows east to catch a flower,
    Soon blooming, soon withering, and so forgotten.
    Didn't my life miss all but a fateful blossom?
 
    谁在用琵琶弹奏一曲东风破 岁月在墙上剥落看见小时候
    Who played over a lute amid east breezes,
    Heart torn apart and tune falling into pieces?
    A weary wall stands peeling and silent.
    Doesn't it remind all but an age innocent?
 
    犹记得那年我们都还很年幼   而如今琴声幽幽我的等候你没听过
    Youthful hours are no more and passed.
    Am I alone holding to by-gones fast?
    In vain is the music blown to float.
    Isn't my wait all but a sobbing note?
 
    谁再用琵琶弹奏一曲东风破 枫叶将故事染色结局我看透
    Never could the same lute ever play
    A tune long gone and blown far away.
    Maples live for a moment bright and brief.
    Wouldn't our story come to all but a grief?
 
    篱笆外的古道我牵著你走过   荒烟漫草的年头就连分手都很沉默
    Beyond hedges an ancient path forgot the time
    When we walked along with your hand in mine.
    Parting words speak less than a silent tear.
    Isn't memory all but smoky grass far and near?
2/20/2007

One Word Perday

Umbilical Cord Blood 脐带血
 
Parents bank kids' umbilical cord blood (From Yahoo News)
WASHINGTON - Flyers in upscale doctors' offices portray it as the hot new baby-shower gift: a registry where friends and family chip in almost $2,000 to start privately banking a newborn's umbilical cord blood, just in case of future illness.

That idea of biological insurance is a long shot that most mothers-to-be can safely ignore, say new guidelines from the nation's pediatricians that urge more parents to donate their babies' cord blood — so that it might save someone's life today.

The guidelines come as the government begins setting up the first national cord-blood banking system, aiming to prevent some 12,000 deaths a year — if public banks can compete with marketing-savvy private companies that now house the bulk of the world's preserved cord blood.

Cord blood is rich in stem cells, the building blocks that produce blood — and the same stem cells that make up the bone-marrow transplants that help many people survive certain cancers and other diseases. But cord blood has some advantages: These younger stem cells are more easily transplanted into unrelated people than bone marrow is, and they can be thawed at a moment's notice, much easier than searching out a bone-marrow donor.

Unless you have a family member with cancer, it's unlikely you would ever need it, and you would be doing a service to humanity to donate it.
11/19/2006

Lament

     Thinking about a lot recently, I finally make the desicion to get back here and leave something. (At least, I want to inform my friends that I still live in this world. Actually, I have been asked to update my blog several times. I guess I just wasn't in the mood.) I want to thank you, all of you, who care about and encourage me in those gloomy days. The period was difficult for me to get over and had made me into a totally different person. I thought that I was over it when I wrote my last paragraph, in a dull and sick way. But, I didn't. Definitely.  Even now, I'm still upset, and once in a while.
 
     Anyway, I think it's time to talk about it.
 
     My grandma was the best, to me, and to everyone in my family. Her whole life should be considered enjoyable. She was the firstborn of a comparatively wealthy family.  As the big sister, she was highly respected by all the family members. (I know that since I have grown up to be sensible enough.) My mother told me that is because grandma took care of all her younger brothers and sisters in her family. I always consider my grandma as a kindly queen with strong will and people are willing to obey her. Yes, she's that good. Then, she married my grandpa who was a soldier and then was rose as officer in the Army. She had two daughters whom she cared so much. But ever since I was born, her all attention was tranferred to me. She loved me very much, and she seldom scolded me even if I killed her goldfishes or drew grotesque pictures all over the snow-white walls. ( I was quite naughty when I was a kid.) And my mother told me that grandma was really a neat admirer of cleanliness. But she tolerated all my terrible behaviors. Just as this, her care and love to me never stopped and they accompanied me all the way through my growth. She was a fount of authority over my conduct and of security for my physical welfare. From her I studied my first poem. From her I sensed the tone of music. From her I knew how to have decent behavior. From her I learned to tell the truth, to refrain from waste, to be considerate of the weak and respectful to age. I couldn't imagine what I would be if I grew up without her... But now, she's gone, for good.
 
     Grandma, I want to tell you that I love you! I love you so much. And I miss you!
 
     I haven't dreamed about my grandma since she passed away. Not even once. How evil I am! I miss her a lot, and I'm thinking about her all the time. But my dreams exclude her.  How cruel she is! She knows how much I miss her and she just doesn't show up! Do you know how much I miss you, Grandma? Do you know how regretful I am that I didn't spend more time with you? If I know that day would had been the last day for me to see you, I would never have moved my sight away from you. If I know that hug would had been the last one for me to give you, I would never have loosen my arms. If... There are so many possibilities, but nothing could bring you back to me. What can I do? I try not to cry in front of the people, but I can't help doing that right now. I promised you that I won't shed a single drop of tear, but I'm sorry. I break my words again. Grandma, how have you been up there? Is it a comfortable place to live in? How bad you are just leave me here like this! Grandma, I'm sorry! I'm sorry!
     ..........................................................
     I wish you happy! Don't worry about me and everyone in our family. We can take care of ourselves. So just enjoy yourself there. Please. You must be, must be happy!!!
   
                                                                                                           From your loved Grand-daughter
9/30/2006

BLANK~~~

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
BLOG出现了大段日子的空白,感到很抱歉!
不过我很羡慕它,如果我的记忆也能够出现断层该有多好。
那段日子,我到现在还不愿去承认以及回想。
也许,在将来的某些时候,我会主动地去把这失去的全部补回来;
也许,也会永远让它处于空白之中……
不过,经过某些事情后,我开始学会不为将来做太多太细致的计划。
因为,明天会突然发生什么,我永远都没办法知道……
 
我还是很高兴自己能够重新鼓起勇气来照顾“空间”,赶在“十一”之前。
希望新的月份能给我带来好运。
痛苦的回忆,
一次就够了!
 
8/19/2006

Inner Mongolia, I'm coming~

     我要去内蒙了~ 不是一般的高兴呢~
     我和姐姐,还有小商,今天经过“千辛万苦”,终于找到了比较满意的旅行社!22号就要出发喽~ 三人内蒙古五日游!!!哈哈哈~~~
从昨天开始我就异常兴奋~ 今天见到他们就不住的傻笑~ 又被当作是傻孩子。不过我真的很高兴,一方面是由于没去过内蒙,那种“风处草低见牛羊”的气势着实需要我去亲身感受一下;还有就是第一次和朋友单独出远门,觉得自己就像是一只渴望自由的小麻雀,呵呵~
     由于维维和玥都去不了,原定的多人团就变成了我和任翘单独旅行。妈咪开始很不赞成,虽说是跟着旅行团,但还是有潜在风险的。但她还是比较心疼我的,看到我用小狗一样忧伤的眼神看她,而且不一会儿就坐在门口啪哒啪哒掉眼泪,妈咪一下子就心软了。(我这一招用的还是比较灵的,十战九胜,呵呵)~ 而且知道我们帅哥商承杰也会去,妈咪就不再阻拦了。其实我是很理解妈妈的,豆豆每次乘我不注意过马路,我的心都提到嗓子眼儿呢,何况是我这样出去呢?不过自己必竟不是小孩子了,不能什么事都依靠父母,也是时候自己锻炼一下,从而慢慢变得成熟了。刚刚说过要想办法“贯穿赤道南北极”,这就给了一个超强的考验机会,所以一定要好好把握的说~
     总之呢,希望我的这次旅行能顺利。可以的话,下次有机会就去丽江,那儿也是我一直很想去的地方(曾经说过自己不太喜欢旅行,不过像云南丽江或是九寨沟这种仙境之地,还是让人流连忘返的)。丽江的话自助游就比较好了,旅游团的商业性很容易破坏那地灵人杰气氛。呵呵~ 看来偶还是蛮有野心的呢~
     其实就像我跟朋友说的,这回出去,也是趁还未开学之际,多多收集些大自然的信息。开学后又要投入紧张的学习中,事情也会很多,不会有空让我享受自然了。Hope everything can go smoothly!!! A Zia!!!
8/16/2006

无标题~

本来想放些艺术节活动照的照片,可是突然发觉不太可能了!
电脑重装以后,不但病毒没了,硬盘里所有的东西也都没了~
汗啊~ 我现在脑子里也已经一片空白了,不记得电脑里都有什么了!
算了,所谓来去无牵挂,反倒也不觉得难过。丢了就丢了,慢慢再添就好了。
不过新系统很好用的说,而且朋友还帮我把我要用的东东都下载下来了,
省了我不少事呢,所以我还是很感激涕零的~~ 在这儿再次道谢啦~

MSN一升级,感觉哪儿都不是哪儿了。
新的Space,功能也都不会用了,写东西也提不起兴趣了~
假期真的会让人变得很松散,很讨厌自己这样!
要慢慢打起精神来,要开学了,有很多事情要去做。

想到件愉快的事。
前天和朋友出去唱歌了,虽然回来后喉咙感到很不适~
怪我自己啦,扯着脖子唱什么飞儿张韶涵的,当时的形象幸好没被拍下来。
不过真的很高兴又见到了罗罗,老公,小彤,砚子还有泡泡她们~ 大家都变得好漂亮啊!
分开这么久,一年也就见一两次,实在感觉好伤感。
以后大家会更忙碌了吧?要见面好难!
……………………
小彤把上次聚会唱歌刻的盘拿给我了,呵呵,好搞笑!
我还用切换功能想方设法和仔仔合唱了《让我爱你》~
虽然音质很差,切得也不是很好,但是还是觉得挺有意思。
哪天拿出去唬人,没准儿还真有人相信呢!呵呵

突然很怀念隔绝网络的时间,好奇怪啊!
很想丢下周遭的一切到一个寂静无人的小岛呆上一阵子。
那里没有人跟我说话,没有音乐,没有交通工具和通讯装置;
那里安静得只听得见虫鸟的叫声,风声和海声;
那里空气新鲜,景色也很宜人……
我可以独自坐在树下看书,静静享受周围的一切;
渴了可以喝露水,饿了可以摘果子吃。
对哦,一直那样的话,我恐怕也不会觉得饿~
………………………………
天哪~ 我的世外桃源原来是这样的???
和我一直认为的有很大出入哦~
不过我现在真的觉得,如果我可以一直那样终老一生,会是件很幸福的事~
我猜,人只有完全放松下来才会流露真感情吧~
 
8/11/2006

先占个地方吧~

电脑中了病毒,还赶上MSN升级~ 汗~ 结果就是一发不可收拾~
少儿艺术节结束了,本想写点什么的,这么一搞完全没有情绪了……
现在换了本儿,虽然好像可以添加日志了,但是我眼前的还是大白版~ 
我可爱的薰衣草颜色啊~~~
唉!就这么被Internet摆了一道~ 好不甘心!下周找朋友来帮忙修看看好了~ 佛祖保佑啊!
 
— Complaining Time Over —
 
忙了将近一个月,这个假期真不是一般的有意义!不管怎么说,这回的志愿者活动使我成长了不少。我所获得的当然不单单如我所说的“就只是发发传真”那么简单。我的经验与能力,在短暂的区间里跨越了不少纬度。虽然我不知道何时我才能做到真正的“贯穿南北两极”,但至少我看到了希望~ 没错,我现在要告诉自己,我,不是一个仅仅会停驻于赤道的小女孩儿了~
 
活动中的情况就不在这儿细细叙述了。其一是电脑还不稳定,不晓得这篇日志能否安全放上去,所以不想多写了;其二是时隔多日,成就感仍在,但脑海要重新将细节过滤也绝非易事,所幸等我回忆好了再来补充。
 
对了,学校也会让交一份社会实践调查报告,把感触都写到那里好了~ (在这儿也用来提醒下自己,除了这个还有篇马哲的社会调查,3000字~)偶还要去啃书,从图书馆借的书开学要还了,可一直都没时间看,不行,那样太不值了!
这里又成了我的记事本了,呵呵  事情不少,我要去奋斗了~ A Za A Za Fighting!!!
7/18/2006

Be off for Works!

要有一段时间隔绝网络了。
没办法照顾空间宝宝你了,take care of yourself~
朋友们帮我照看好我的宝贝噢~
 
P.S. 我这次不是去跳拉丁了啊…… 呵呵
 
Hope everything will be fine when I'm back~
I'm gonna miss you~
 
 
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